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Physical
Pain/Emotional Pain
Recently, the University of California at Los Angeles (UCLA) isolated
the part of the human brain responsible for processing physical pain. As
it turns out, this is exactly the same cluster of neurons that processes
emotional pain. This research was published in the October 10, 2003
issue of Science. |
Perhaps EFT simply removes
the processing of the original pain within the brain. Perhaps it removes
the “smudge on the blueprint.” Upcoming
Seminar “Do you think the stinger
is still in you?” was the first question from Berit, “I could check
it for you, if you want?” Since the idea of bending over as my very
best and vulnerable cheek was inspected with a magnifying glass held
no appeal at all, I politely declined, and quickly performed another
round of EFT as Berit headed for the phone. “Who are you calling, an
ambulance?” I asked. “I’m going to call my girlfriend, she’ll love this!”
And so, with the sound of female laughter ringing in my ears, I dressed
and cleared the wreckage of the chair off the sundeck, tapping all the
way. Interestingly, the sting was completely gone within an hour, thanks
to EFT. The sting to the fragile male ego took a little longer. You can tell people
all about something like EFT. You can describe how it works, how to
apply it, how wonderful it is and what fantastic, incredible results
you have had with it. Some people will get excited about what they hear,
but then others will sit there and give you one of those "Oh really?"
looks - that's if they aren't wondering if they left the gas on or not.
The best way to get people excited about EFT is to show it to them.
Better yet, if you get the chance, use it on them.
I recently visited
a physiotherapist to tell her all about EFT and the courses to be presented
here in Spain. I had sent her some info and she had visited the websites
for Dr. Alex Lees and Gary Craig, so she had some idea about this EFT
"stuff". During my visit to the clinic where she works, we were interrupted
by the telephone ringing, so she politely excused herself and answered
it. After a brief conversation with the caller, she hung up, exhaling
deeply, with mild exasperation.
After a few minutes
more, the phone rang again. The same caller apparently... this time
there were more obvious signs the caller was starting to irritate the
physiotherapist... a heavy sigh, the tightened lips while she spoke,
the frown upon her face. After hanging up a second time, she apologised
for the interruption and I continued telling her about how EFT could
help her physiotherapy clients. She slowly relaxed again, only to be
interrupted once more by the same caller. Uh oh! I thought I could see
little bits of smoke hissing out from her ears! She really was trying
very hard to be polite with the gentleman on the other end of the line
- specially with me present in the office. After a very short and sharp
conversation, she practically slammed the phone back down again.
"Would you like
me to help you with that?", I offered. "Pardon?", she seemed confused.
"I can show you what EFT is all about right now... may I?", "Oh... ok."
So having established she'd "had enough" and her intensity of "annoyance"
was at about a 7, I did one round of tapping. Before I finished the
round, her expression changed, looking much more relaxed.
"How
bad is it now?". I asked, "About a two," was the reply. Another round
of tapping on the remaining "annoyance" and she was all smiles... "Wow!
This stuff really works!"
"So
tell me about the caller" - "Oh, Mr. T. Yeah he can really make me angry
sometimes." (Remember Mr. T, from the A-Team?) The way she said it made
me decide to gently take her hand and begin tapping the P.R. point,
asking her to repeat after me... "Even though, Mr. T really annoys me
sometimes, I deeply and completely accept myself." She laughed, agreed,
and repeated it three times. I suggested a couple more phrases, like
"Even though the phone rings at the most inopportune times, and the
interruptions can be really annoying, I deeply and completely accept
myself," whilst I kept tapping her P.R. point continuously.
I then asked her to suggest a good phrase to use. She had a quick think
and said "Even though I get angry, it is actually at my boss, for not
hiring a receptionist to take calls, I deeply and completely accept
myself..." I said, "Very good! Do go on!" She continued, "Even
though my boss doesn't really appreciate the work we do around here,
and how difficult it is in this environment, and how hard we work...
and he doesn't even acknowledge it, I deeply and completely accept myself."
So, we then quickly
addressed the feelings of being unappreciated and then checked on Mr.
T once more, tapping for the remaining intensity. The smile on her face
said it all. "So that's EFT," I said. She replied, "Great! Put me down
for two to attend the course!"
Quite often it
is best to just use EFT, rather than talk about it. If you happen to
find yourself in a "live" situation like the above, "strike while the
iron's hot," show them what EFT can do, and remember, you can use it
for just about anything!
Happy tapping!
To contact Jose: Good
News/Bad News
The bad news is
our sponsors in Spain have advised us, that due to unforeseen circumstances
the seminars planned for October need to be rescheduled. We apologize
to everyone for any inconvenience this may have caused. The good news
is our sponsors are planning the seminars for late March or early April
2005. Although all of us are disappointed we won’t be going this October,
we look forward to bringing EFT back to Spain in 2005!
Every cloud
has a silver lining “they” say... and in this case, it means we will
be able to do an EFT seminar here in the Lower Mainland in October!
The dates for the seminar are Oct. 23 & 24. Please view
the flyer for all the details.
Most of you are
aware from my previous articles that we spent most of the summer renovating
our house, and we’re very pleased to report that we finished the final
big job last weekend. The two decks outside where the doggies lay to
get out of the rain, now have roofs. This also allows Alex to BBQ all
winter and not get soaking wet... something he looks forward to :-)
We’re also looking
forward to spending the whole Fall season here at home as it’s our favourite
time of year. The leaves have started to change colours and the sun
is still shining... maybe we’ll have one of our spectacular Indian summers!
The final draft of our EFT eBook is in the works, and we hope to have
it available soon. A couple of things happened at the same time to sidetrack
us... ADSL finally came to our area and we switched internet service
providers, which left us not receiving emails. At the same time we installed
the Windows XP Service Pac 2 which rendered most of my computer useless.
But, we were fortunate
to be warned about that by our friend Doug, so Alex did something before
the installation, which allowed us to restore the computer to its previous
status. You can probably tell from my explanation that I don’t have
a clue what I’m talking about when it comes to this technical stuff...
all I know is my computer “sort of” works and some days we get emails.
I definitely have more grey hairs now than I did a month ago!
For those of you
that have wondered why we haven’t replied as promptly as we normally
do to emails... now you know why! Hopefully, all this computer/internet
“stuff” will be fixed soon, and we will be back to normal. For the inquiring
minds amongst you asking... “Did you tap for that?” You bet we did...
and we still are... especially Alex because he is the one that turns
on my computer first thing in the morning and is now greeted with some
VERY interesting emails containing all sorts of electronic devices he’s
never heard of, and the special uses they have. Also, lots and lots
of photos of lovely naked women... I did ask Alex if he really wanted
to fix the problem because once it’s fixed, he wouldn’t be seeing them
anymore. He replied, “It will be a good thing... my heart couldn’t take
much more of this, especially first thing in the morning!”
I hope all your computers are working fine, and you are enjoying Autumn!
Thinking that it would be best to get it over with quickly,
she took out Earl’s old Army pistol and made the decision to
shoot herself in the heart, since it was so badly broken in
the first place.
Not wanting to miss the vital organ and become a vegetable and
burden someone, she called her doctor’s office to inquire as
to just exactly where the heart would be on a woman.
The doctor said, “Your heart would be just below your left breast.”
Later that night, Mildred was admitted to the hospital with
a gunshot wound to her knee.
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