“Future
Pacing”
by Dr.
Alexander R. Lees
Over
the years I have heard many people say that
they’ve attended a workshop or seminar and
it was great. They felt energized, excited
and were eager to try the new skills they
had learned. They were motivated!
Many people have also said the same thing
about seeing a therapist. They say the session
was terrific and they felt better, but a
few days later, things were back to the
way they were before the session. What happened
to those feelings they experienced while
at the workshop, or in the therapist’s office?
How come they can’t put into practise what
they learned at the workshop or in the therapy
session?
After
becoming aware of this, and wanting to do
something to change it, I remembered an
NLP technique that would do the trick. I
think one of the reasons people weren’t
taking the new learning or skills into the
“real world” was because the workshop presenter,
or therapist, had not future paced
the learning or experience adequately.
In
other words, the person wasn’t able to take
the learning out of the seminar and into
their every day lives. The same can be said
for the therapist. The person’s issue was
cleared in the office, but somehow it didn’t
translate or transport into their daily
living experience.
So,
what is future pacing? This is the
concept of contextualization. It is not
all that unusual for something learned in
one place, or location (context) to be “unavailable”
in another (context). This is where future
pacing comes in. Future pacing provides
a “bridge” from one context to another.
A
simple futurepace can be done by simply
saying to the client, “Now, can you imagine
the next time you are in that situation,
and realizing this resource is available
to you.”
The
word pattern used to create the bridge can
vary, the point is to assist the client
in using their imagination to contextualize
the changework or resource technique to
when and where they want it
available to them.
Developing
the art of future pacing is but one more
tool to add to your growing therapeutic
toolbox, not to mention that using it not
only adds elegance to your work, it will
be much appreciated by those you offer assistance
to.
And,
yes, you may even find situations, events
or circumstances where future pacing to
be a good thing... one excellent example
is taking the learning out of a book or
seminar, and having it available when you
need it. Now, I’d like you to imagine the
next time, in some other context, where
the use of future pacing and remembering
to use it, would be useful for you!